What They Don’t Tell You About Divorce 

One year ago today, my world was turned upside down when I realized that my marriage was over. Something I never thought would happen or gave a second thought to was suddenly my reality, and I had no idea where to turn, what to do or how to react.  Anger, depression, frustration, desperation and rejection […]

It’s not about the national anthem… 

It’s not about the national anthem, people.  It’s not about Trump. The NFL. Kneeling. Patriotism.  The real reason for this all has NOTHING to do with why this all started.  Part of our issue in this country is that we take 15% of the perceived truth, and become a keyboard warrior on social media and […]

In The Middle 

In the middle. I think that’s where I am.  Sometimes I feel so close to happiness and fulfillment; only to feel alone and depressed five minutes later. I know the road to success, but I procrastinate to the point of insanity.  I know what I need to do, but what I choose to do it too […]

This past week’s journey… 

I never really go through a major experience without doing some major reflection on my life, actions and future.  One of the biggest things I was thinking throughout my stay in the hospital is, “Thank God I am as healthy as I am.” I can’t imagine how much worse this all would have been if […]

11 Years

11 years.  The journey over the last 11 years has been absolutely magical; and I never, EVER expected to be where I am today.  11 years ago today was my spinal fusion surgery, where I had my lower spine fused together due to my discs exploding in between my vertebrae.  I was never so scared, […]


Why are we all so afraid of CHANGE? If you know me personally, you may have heard me compare my recent year to the “frog in the boiling water.” You know the story, right? Throw a frog into a pot of boiling water and he’ll jump right out because of the heat. But, if the […]

My First Blog…. Here We GO!

I have wanted to be a writer ever since I was a kid, hiding under my sheets after bedtime with a flashlight reading the Hardy Boys. I have so much on my heart that I want to share with the world, and I don’t even know where to start; so I am just going to […]